Day 7: עֲנָוָה / Humility
Our last few days that focused on fear were really just an exercise towards cultivating an authentic
sense of modesty. Humility is hailed in Judaism as one of the most important characteristics one could
attain. Apropos of Passover, we are told, "Now Moses was a very humble man, more so than any other
person on earth" (Numbers 12:3). The key to Moses' leadership was his humility.
Humility contains an interesting paradox, because the moment someone takes credit for their modesty
or acts from a place of concern over reputation, their humility flips into its antithesis.
This 'Heisenberg Uncertainty Principle' effect makes true humility wistfully elusive but all the
more so valuable and precious.
Humility fuels curiosity and connection, and provides the soil in which true wisdom and connection
can sprout.
Reflection:
Is there a way to feel proud or accomplished without losing your humility?
Do you believe that you can develop as a person and make a positive impact on others without being grounded in humility?
Lived practice:
Today's practice is based upon a humility practice of the medieval scholar Ramban:
Let your voice be gentle, and your head bowed. Let your eyes be turned earthwards and your heart heavenwards. Let every person seem superior to you in your own eyes.
When you catch yourself checking on your humility, note the thought and move onward. Overthinking the trait of humility runs counter to attaining it.